Tong
Tong is a unisex given name: about 52% of people named Tong are men and 48% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
This name is used for both men and women without a strong lean either way.
- Verdict
- Unisex
- Male / female split
- 52% male / 48% female
- Confidence
- High (64 or more weighted country observations)
- Most common in
- China, Vietnam, Korea
- US births since 1880
- 304 male / 0 female
- Data
- nam_dict (GFDL) + US SSA
- Updated
- 2026-09-11
How to address Tong
To address Tong when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Tong," in English, "Guten Tag Tong," in German. About 52% of people named Tong are men and 48% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Ready-made greetings in six languages
English
Dear Tong,
German
Guten Tag Tong,
French
Bonjour Tong,
Spanish
Estimado/a Tong:
Chinese
Tong您好：
Japanese
Tong様
English
Hi Tong,
German
Hi Tong,
French
Salut Tong,
Spanish
Hola Tong,
Chinese
Tong你好：
Japanese
Tongさん
This is a statistical estimate, not a statement about the gender, identity or correct form of address of any particular person.
Country breakdown
| Country | How common | Usually | Male share |
|---|---|---|---|
| China | common | unisex name | 50% |
| Vietnam | uncommon | unisex name | 50% |
| Korea | uncommon | unisex name | 50% |
| United States | rare | man's name | 100% |
United States birth data
304 male · 0 female · 304 births recorded
Since 1980: 100% male.
Frequently asked questions
Is Tong a male or female name?
Tong is a unisex given name: about 52% of people named Tong are men and 48% are women, so a gendered salutation is a coin flip and the neutral form is the safe choice.
How do I address Tong in an email?
To address Tong when you do not know their gender, use the full name with no title: "Dear Tong," in English, "Guten Tag Tong," in German. About 52% of people named Tong are men and 48% are women, so a gendered salutation is close to a coin flip, and the neutral form above is the safer choice.
Is Tong a unisex name?
Tong is a unisex name: 52% of people named Tong are men. The split stays close across most of the countries in the data.
Related names
Sources
Gender by country: nam_dict, the c't first-names dictionary by Joerg Michael, roughly 44,000 names across 55 countries, licensed GFDL. US frequencies: United States Social Security Administration baby-name data, public domain. Method: how we classify names. Full dataset: data & licences. Data built 2026-09-11.
DearWho, "Is Tong a male or female name?", https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/tong (accessed 2026-09-11). Data: nam_dict (J. Michael, GFDL) and US SSA, built 2026-09-11.
BibTeX
@misc{dearwho_tong,
title = {Is Tong a male or female name?},
author = {{DearWho}},
year = {2026},
url = {https://dearwho.vercel.app/name/tong},
note = {Data: nam_dict (GFDL), US SSA public domain}
}